Kink/BDSM Etiquette

How we conduct ourselves when we’re at kink events are a little bit different from vanilla (non-kinky) ones. We’re a lot stricter. It’s generally expected that you be respectful, empathic, and inclusive all the time in your every day life but it’s more important to do so during kink due to the higher level of vulnerability and risks involved.

Here are some kink-specific reminders to help you avoid performing a social kinky faux pas.

References & Recommendations

Wiki Article
“Protocols will vary from munch to munch, but this is a great starter template for most any munch you are likely to attend…”
Article

“Basic kink etiquette should be applied in all kinky spaces, in private or in public and as both a player and as an audience member.

Whether you’ll be playing with someone you’ve known for years or someone you’ve just made contact with, there are a few things to be mindful of and we’ve created a brief outline for you below.”

Article

“Kink etiquette  means a lot of different things for a lot of people. So, to narrow the subject, I’m not talking about BDSM role-play but how to behave in a public BDSM setting.”