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Kinksters have different approaches when deciding what happens during a session. Some prefer to be fully informed, some prefer to leave it all up to their partner, and some like to stay somewhere in between.
Because of this, it’s important that people who wish to play with each other figure out which camp their partner/s fall in so that both can prepare to manage their expectations (or lack thereof).
ChicoMunch.com: Drop (sometimes called sub drop, dom drop and “The Mondays”) is an experience with similar characteristics of depression that occurs after an intense SM scene.
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S. Nicole Lane: “Euphoria and BDSM are still an enigma for the larger public that exists outside of the kink community. Here’s what psychological and physical characteristics occur when you keep it kinky.”
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The Cut.com: Roni Jacobson writes: “The transformative effects of bondage are well known within the BDSM community. ‘We call it rope space‘, says Roxie, who leads the New York chapter of Hitchin Bitches, a rope bondage group for women.”
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Fetish.com: “Subspace is well known by people within the BDSM scene, it’s an altered state of being where a submissive totally lets go and is under the complete control of their Dom. But have you ever heard of Topspace and what happens after you’ve experienced these states of mind? Victoria Blisse shares her thoughts and practices on what to do once ‘space’ is achieved.”
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